There’s not a single good reason for a man to get married in today’s day and age considering it will very likely end in divorce with the man getting cleaned out for half his wealth if not having to pay child support on top.
I just read this article about some cucked beta males spending thousands on marriage proposals to impress their fiances. One cuck profiled in the article actually spent $14,000 to impress his dame with some fireworks and other superficial shit.
Apparently there’s a whole industry of “proposal planners” who rake in thousands of dollars to plan out elaborate marriage proposals for these bootlicking beta males who can’t impress their girl with natural charm or wit and thus overcompensate for their stale personalities with expensive fireworks and jewelry.
While there’s nothing wrong with being somewhat sentimental with a girl that you really like (flowers or small gifts on special occasions should do), it shouldn’t be taken to any kind of extreme, especially from an alpha male perspective. Showing too many emotions for and deference to a girl – like you’re just the “luckiest man on earth” to be with her – is a display of weakness and is typical of beta cuck losers who have succumb to leftist-feminist culture corruption.
A marriage proposal should cost no money at all, apart from the ring. Men who spend obscene amounts of money taking their girlfriends to extravagant restaurants or buying them expensive gifts have become feminized betas and deserve our scorn. They are submitting to the gender role reversal, where the man does everything he can to artificially please the woman and not the other way around. Most women these days can’t even cook a decent meal, so why should we shower them with expensive gifts when they give us nothing in return besides spreading their legs when they feel horny? And she will most likely shut that down when she’s not getting exactly what she wants from you at all times. No woman deserves to be spoiled like some rich kid on Christmas day with a mountain of presents under the tree.
When you go to a bar or nightclub to meet women, you shouldn’t buy them drinks – at all. Your job is to just get the number and move on to other girls. Don’t spend too much time on any one girl, as many of them are just there to get some attention, get you to buy them drinks and then ditch you. There’s no need to waste your money buying girls drinks when there’s no guarantee she’ll give the number. And even if she gives the number there’s no certainty she’ll respond to your messages later. I’ve had situations where I’ve literally made out with a girl in a club for half an hour and was denied the number afterwards. Maybe if she’s really hot and she’s been talking to you for awhile you can buy her a drink, but that’s rare.
You have to have the attitude that the woman you’re seeing should be thankful that you’re giving her all this time and attention that you could be placing elsewhere on more productive matters. It’s difficult to have in-depth conversations with women because if you get onto a subject – like politics, religion or race – that women generally don’t like, she’ll tweak out and have an emotional fit if you insist that this be discussed. Unless she’s right-wing herself, any hint that you harbour right-wing political or social views will turn her against you.
Most women simply want to chit-chat about trivialities and sentimental subjects like travel, food, jobs, gossip and other nonsense. If anything important is broached she’ll quickly get bored and change the subject to something idiotic. They do this because most women have the minds of children and are in constant search of self-gratification. When they’re not getting what they want, when they want it, they throw a temper tantrum and deny you sex or try to cause you some other grief.
All in all, don’t get married and don’t invest too much time or resources into any one girl unless she has really good qualities and a nice rack.